Toxic!!

I always tell myself that things might not go according to my plan, but I have to be optimistic about it. I know some people might say I'm being unrealistic, but hey, it's my life and I can do whatever I want with it. If you prefer to be such a pessimist, then go ahead, like I would care! It's funny though when these kind of people trying so hard to bring me down when in reality, their lives aren't any better than mine. And the way they complained is so sickening that I wonder if they have anything else better to do in their lives than complaining about other people. They might feel as if they're the greatest creatures alive that they sometimes forgot that what goes around comes around.

Someone told me once "Be careful of what you say." That's so true. I know I have the tendency to be extremely sarcastic at times, especially towards something or someone that I don't really like (read : ANNOYED), but I make it a point to myself never ever call someone names, or use any contemptuous word. That's why I found it extremely offended when a person talks bad about someone else using contemptuous words. It's like degrading the other person and that's one of the worst humiliation one can do to another person. So whenever someone came to me and tell me about the other person (whether I know the other person or not) and badmouthing him in the contemptuous way (even though he is that bad), I couldn't help but wonder if this person do the same thing to me with some else. I guess if you can do it to one person, chances you do the same thing to other people are high. But one thing for sure, whenever I heard such remarks from someone, I do listen to him but instead of picturing the other person, I often pictured the speaker himself. There's nothing worse than keep looking and talking about someone else's flaws.

Having said this, I have no intention putting myself as if I am a living angel, I mean a real angel. I do badmouth other people sometimes, and there are times when I feel I prefer to be a pessimist rather than an optimist but I degrading other people is totally way beyond everything. It's just against the values that I believe. To those people who have so much time on their hands to degrade others in any ways, stay away from me. I don't want you near, coz you're so toxic!!! And if you wanna badmouth me because of this post, then go ahead. I won't lose anything, but you will, you'll lose my respect.