I was just finished my test earlier (which was okay =p) when a girlfriend, Miss I-Love-Scones, called me and upon hearing her trembling voice, I know she got into another fight with her beau, again. Being a good friend (really?) and a psychologist-to-be (haha!), I had the cell phone glued to my ear, listening to the details of the World War III. Then she asked me, "Babe, how do you know if you're in love with someone?" I was like, oh no, not that question again!! That was her favourite question whenever she’s having argument with her beau, which always over the silliest thing on earth, and as always my answer will be "when you feel the tling, tling, tling feeling during your first kiss" I know it is not a helpful answer, but it's better than a long mmmm, right? Seriously and honestly, I have no idea. I've been in relationships before but still I don't have the right answer. I ask this question to Mommy before and her answer was "You know it when you experience it" But how am supposed to be aware of it if I have no clue about it???? Perhaps I should ask Big Sis hehe. I'm sure she has more experiences in this matter as compared to me haha but I think I know what her answer will be: when he has a platinum credit card haha!! Right sis? Don't get her wrong, she's not being materialistic, she's just being realistic okay.
I don't think there's any right answer on how to know if you're in love or not. It really depends on the person himself. Different people, different tastes, different preferences. Of course, being in relationship doesn't mean you're in love but as for me, perhaps it is when despite all his bad habits, I still see him as the most wonderful guy I've ever meet, which is a fat chance to happen coz I can get annoyed easily at times haha!! Looks like falling in love is still a looooooong way for me. Until then, I should just ask other people about it.
ps: If you guys happened to know anyone that I might attracted to, do tell me!!! Heheh =)
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