-adj
- lacking in care or thought for others; heedless; thoughtless; selfish
- Rare insufficiently considered
How do we deal with inconsiderate people?
Do we curse at them?
Do we do hurtful things to them?
Do we tell them that they're a jerk coz they're inconsiderate?
Do we keep it to ourselves to avoid any conflicts?
Perhaps God wanted to test my temper and He let not one, but two inconsiderate people crossed my path last week.
1st incident
My friends and I were about to have our lunch when a guy in a wheelchair needed our help to get to another building. Since we were heading to the same building, we thought that it would be no harm. Mind you it was almost lunch and the four of us didn't have our breakfast. When we're at the building, this guy, let just call him Mr I-Own-U, started to boss my friend, A, to take him to level 12 and then to level 15. Then to level 5. Mind you, even though he's in a wheelchair and needed A's help, at least asked if we have our own things to do. He didn't even ask if we have class to attend. All that matter to him was to go to places that he wanted to go. Since I know I don't have the patience to deal with bossy people, I told my friends that I'd wait for them at the stall. I really didn't want to upset him with my presence coz I'm the kinda person who have problem concealing my feeling when something or someone annoys me. I really salute A for the kind of patience that she has. Unfortunately some people don't know to be grateful. After ignoring her hunger pangs to help a helpless person, we're surprised to find out that Mr I-Own-U told another friend of mine, B, that A treated him as a burden!! My Lord!! Is that the kind of things you do to people who helped you? To Mr I-Own-U, I know you depressed for whatever reason, but next time please be considerate about other people as well and please don't talk bad to other people about those who helped you . And you wonder why people won't help you for the 2nd time huh?
2nd incident
I was just finished my class and was rushing home and when I arrived at the car park, geez my car was blocked by another white car, again. Sigh. I wonder why only it’s always white cars that block my car. That's what happened when the number of students keeps increasing but the parking slots remain the same. I was hoping that the driver was not in class and able to move his car a.s.a.p. It was a shock when I peeped into the car, I found no paper displaying the driver's contact no!! I kept looking on the dashboard and the seats but nothing!! Aarrggghhh!! How can someone be so damn stupid to block someone else's car but leave no contact no?!! Perhaps the driver thought that I have all the time in the world to wait for him? Or perhaps he thought that he owns the world that he could do anything he wants?? Stupid S.O.A.B. Luckily I'm a smart girl (haha!!) and I managed to find another way to come out from the slot, without scratching any cars!!! Even though I'm a lady driver, I know how manoeuvred my car well ok. Of course, before I left, I did give the stupid driver some 'love' note =) Guys, next time if you have to block other cars, please leave your contact number unless you don't mind your car getting rammed heheh.
I know sometimes life makes some of us to become such inconsiderate people but then again it's all about choices. You only become an inconsiderate people if you choose to become one but some people will say that life give them no option to choose. They're wrong. It's either you make the choice or the choice make you.
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